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The church should be the one place where people are welcomed in order to be introduced to the grace of Christ. The United Methodist Church affirms human sexuality "as a sacred gift and acknowledge that sexual intimacy contributes to fostering the emotional, spiritual, and physical well-being of individuals and to nurturing healthy sexual relationships that are grounded in love, care and respect.". What Are Gay-Friendly Churches?

Gay-friendly churches are inclusive faith communities that openly welcome LGBTI+ individuals without judgment or discrimination. These churches often advocate for: Affirmation: Acknowledging and celebrating LGBTI+ identities as part of God’s creation. This article looks at the issue of how believers in the church ought to relate to homosexuality. This is part one of an ongoing series on problematic trends in the church regarding LGBT issues.

Many who describe themselves this way — but by no means all — say they are embracing chastity or celibacy and pursuing a relationship with Christ.

That is, they believe the historic, biblical Christian sexual ethic, that God created humans male and female, and sexual expression is reserved for the marriage relationship of a husband and wife. A number of Christian writers and ministries have adopted this nomenclature, with some of them training churches and other ministries to follow their lead.

Focus on the Family does not believe these terms are biblical or helpful for same-sex-attracted strugglers. Humans are either male or female. This is actually a core identity — along with, for believers, the deeper, Christian identity of being a son or daughter of our Father. Both male and female are made in the image of God and both are good and valuable and necessary complements for each other.

Malakoi is another word for homosexuality in Scripture; it means effeminate or soft. It puts a barrier between a believer and his true identity in Christ. Why use language that is so confusing? This is not a biblical view of personhood. But I have yet to see an argument for this terminology that is rooted in Scripture. The language people use to describe themselves is an important theological consideration, not a matter of preference or self-definition.

So we do not define people by sexual attractions or sexual behaviors. Image from Shutterstock. Is being gay a sin? We are all sinners, but we can be forgiven and born again through faith in Christ. And everybody stands condemned, whether they are male or female, black or white, old or young. But the good news is that God loves us in spite of our sin, and He sent His Son Jesus Christ to purchase our redemption.

The Bible tells us:. So to answer the question: Can you be gay and a Christian? Yes — You can be a Christian and, at the same time, struggle with same-sex attraction. Anybody who wants to follow Jesus Christ needs to make it their goal to stay away from sexual practices that the Bible says are sinful. Not next to you, not over you, but in you. Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute?

Certainly not! When we accept Christ as Savior, we also make a decision to live the way He wants us to live — righteously by the power of the Holy Spirit. Call us for a free over-the-phone consultation. Our licensed or pastoral counselors would welcome the chance to hear your story and talk with you in more detail. Resources If a title is currently unavailable through Focus on the Family, we encourage you to use another retailer.

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